The Mountain Guide: Better Than a Boyfriend

Navigating the peaks and valleys of adventure alongside my husband Marc has been a journey of love and learning, tested by the challenges of climbing, biking, and rafting. Yet, amidst the exhilarating highs and humbling lows, I’ve discovered an unexpected ally in our Colorado escapades: the mountain guide.

Now, before you raise an eyebrow, hear me out.

Countless times, our shared passions have morphed into tense moments as I grapple with fear, frustration, or sheer exhaustion while striving to keep pace, manage gear, or endure seemingly endless climbs. However, these trials have honed our communication skills, fostering deeper understanding and clearer expectations for our mountain endeavors.

But oh, the difference a mountain guide makes! Gentlemen, if you seek to elevate your partner’s climbing experience, consider becoming a certified American Mountain Guide Association guide. And ladies, if you long for a companion who’ll lead the way with grace, patience, and skill, a guide is the answer to your mountain dreams.

Here’s a glimpse into the uplifting guidance I received:

“How are you feeling? Are you comfortable there?” “Let’s take a break. Would you like some tea and snacks?” “You’re doing great! You’re a natural.”

These encouraging words, delivered with genuine care, resonated differently than those from my climbing partner. They instilled confidence, easing my nerves and heightening my enjoyment of the climb.

Before our winter ascent of Guides Ridge on Mt. Crested Butte, doubt threatened to overshadow my excitement. Yet, as we met our guide, Jake, and geared up for the challenge, his meticulous preparation and reassuring demeanor bolstered my confidence.

Throughout the climb, Jake’s expert guidance and unwavering support empowered me to navigate technical terrain with newfound skill and composure. His patient instruction and methodical approach cultivated an environment where learning flourished and fears diminished.

Reflecting on our ascent, I realized the transformative power of guided climbing. It stripped away ego and insecurity, fostering a spirit of collaboration and mutual respect. As Jake aptly noted, climbing with a guide transcends mere partnership; it’s a shared journey towards growth and mastery.

So why wait? Whether scaling a ridge or charting new routes, hiring a guide offers invaluable wisdom and reassurance, enabling us to explore the heights of our potential with newfound freedom and confidence.

In the end, it’s not just about reaching the summit; it’s about savoring the journey, embracing the challenges, and relishing the breathtaking vistas along the way. And perhaps, with a guide by our side, we can navigate life’s peaks and valleys with grace, courage, and a renewed sense of wonder.